Definition:
1.A keen sense of what to say or do to avoid giving offense; skill in dealing with difficult or delicate situations.
2. A keen sense of what is appropriate, tasteful, or aesthetically pleasing; taste; discrimination.
Example:
My husband lacks tact when breaking news to me.
I was so excited that Danny would be getting home early from work today. I cleaned the house, showered, got dressed, and waited for him to get home. He didn't know it yet...but we were going to go shopping. When he came home, he asked what I wanted to do...I said shopping!
So, I'm putting on my boots and Danny looks at me says "SO, you have three months to get your license." Long pause. "I'm going to Yuma for two months!" He said it with such joy and excitement....and I was angry.
I was not angry that he will be gone for two months. I was mad because of the way he told me. Seriously, when/if he deploys he better not have a smile on his face while telling me. I know it's why he signed up but atleast have my concerns/emotions/feelings in mind when you tell me. Don't be jumping for joy while my mind is stuck on "Damn, now I need to get my license." (If you don't know my driving issue read it HERE.)
But here's the thing, ten minutes before I wrote out my blog about my New Year goals (to be published this weekend!)...and driving is on the list. Yet the thought of someone telling me I have to get it freaks me out. So, what do I do? I text my sister and start making a plan for the next few months. And while it might seem totally ridiculous to most some people...it's what will work for me.
1) I will get my permit here and practice, practice, practice.
2) I'll go home for X-amount of months. Something I always said I wouldn't do, but hey...I'm allowed to change my mind.
3) Practice driving. And work at the restaurant I used to work at...and make some money!
4) Come back to NC and get my license.
Am I happy about the plan. Some of it.
And just a reminder to Danny. Tact is your friend when breaking news like this to your wife.
